FLYing, I think is supposed to be about seeing how the little things add up. The very first thing the program encourages you to do is clean up your sink and then shine it. Then every day no matter what you're supposed to shine your sink, to remind yourself that little things are worth it. Seeing that clean sink every morning is supposed to be a nice hug to get you started each day.
So the important thing to remember is that your daily hug does not need to be a clean shiny sink. In fact, if looking at that sink every morning pisses you off because you hate shining the sink, then that is the complete opposite of daily hug. Find something else that just makes you feel good, takes 15 mins or less to complete, and can be done even if the rest of the house is in chaos.
For me, I'm going to start straightening out the shoe area.